People are always showing you who they are, all you have to do is pay attention

This has been my life mantra for the past year, and it’s made a world of a difference in my own personal life (as well as in work and business)

“People are always showing you who they are, all you have to do is pay attention

People have always told me that I have an incredibly astute judge of character, but living by this statement has made a WORLD of a difference.

In fact, it deepened what was already a strength ten-fold.

It’s allowed me to date and love FAR more intelligently (and see people for who and how they really are within a relatively short period of time)

AND it’s also saved me from going into several working relationships that would have ended poorly.

I invite you to try out this idea in your own life and see if it helps you in navigating through the world.

Here’s another variation that has served me in navigating life, in a larger and broader sense:

“Life is always giving you exactly what you need… all you have to do is simply pay attention”

Seriously.

Just pay attention.

Be mindful and aware.

And just pay attention.

It’s all here. Right now.

You are unconditionally supported by life.

Wrapped in the prevailing wisdom and safety of love.

Gently ascending upwards.

As soon as you allow yourself to see it

Written with immense love,

Kevin

 

I choose expansion…

This originally started as a note on my iPhone to myself about how I “should” do certain things in order to grow my business.

However, I noticed that my language and word choice wasn’t serving me – and made the whole process feel heavy – so I quickly reframed my long list of “shoulds” into positive and empowering statements that actually inspire me

This was a real-time application of something that I talked about in another blog post that I wrote here

Here’s what I came up with (as you read through it, see how you can apply this type of conscious language choice in your life and business goals as well)

I choose to create a big, strong and compelling vision around the change that I want to see in the world

I choose to attract a group of people who share a similar vision in life and want to help spread the change that we both want to see in the world (collaborators and cause partners)

I choose to attract a team of people who see and believe in the depth of my genius and trust that it would do great things if fully harnessed, channelled and delivered (both for us and for the world)

I choose to attract a team of people who have a complimentary genius (and want to work together to do great things in the world)

It feels really empowering to go back and read that.

In fact, I already see a lot of it happening.

(And I just wrote these intentions a few days ago)

I think a lot of it has to do with the very intentional language I used.

This post originally started out with a bunch of statements around how I need to do all these things that I was feeling like I was “behind” on doing – and that started to create a feeling of dread.

Then, once I reframed it, it actually started to feel like a pleasant and empowering possibility for myself.

Now that I look back at it, I realize that I’ve been taking positive actions towards these statements without having to use any conscious “will” or “force”

It just feels like the natural course of action now.

And I think it’s because that’s what my subconscious mind has been processing and working on, after I had properly directed it.

If there’s a certain area of your life that you’d like to achieve more in, or that you’re feeling stuck about, make sure you pay close attention to the way you use your language around it.

Sometimes, a simple yet powerful shift in your language is all you really need to get yourself to flowing on a more positive trajectory.

I talk more about that in the blog I wrote here, as well as how to reframe your challenges into positive constructive statements that you can use to create your life in the most effective way possible

To learn more about how to do that, just click here