If your relationship lacks a deliberate and mutually agreed upon intention that is grounded in the expansion of love and spiritual evolution, it will eventually devolve into the selfish insistence that you meet each other’s needs as a token of demonstrating your love and commitment to one another (or the relationship)
This inevitably leads to separation as no one person can ever meet all your needs in a relationship or succeed in the game of ‘proving’ one’s love or commitment. If it needs to be proved, it’s not a game that can be won. Or a game worth playing.
Instead, surrender your ego to the consciously co-created intentions that you made for joining forces together in the expansion of love and spiritual evolution.
This is what will allow you transcend both of your individual preferences, and allow space for your true and authentic commitment to unfold.
This is the delicate balance between your ego and your higher self in relationships.
Just one small snippet of what you can expect from The Love Immersion 
I’m curious… what do you think of this stuff? Do you dig it? Would you want to participate in the co-creation and sharing of this message in any capacity?
Let me know.
Kevin
PS: I wrote this over 2 years ago and reposted it, and my friend saw it and decided to post it on his page (Relationship Rules) which has close to 10 million fans.
Now, my post has had over 1,500+ people like it, 500+ people share it, and several hundreds comment on it.
I never would have thought that would happen from a simple re-share that I did when reading a flash back from my past. Feeling both proud and humbled. It’s just a Facebook share at the end of the day, and a couple thousand people liking and commenting, but the nature of how it happened is pretty cool. Easy. Effortless. Flow. More of this, please.
Check it out and read it if you haven’t already
It’s good stuff
PPS: if you want to learn more about how to create a relationship with a shared intention in the evolution of love and spiritual growth, check out ____